Stop asking what others think

Don’t get me wrong! Having many advisors and counsellors is critical. The key here is to remember what “critical” is FOR.

Is it critical because if you ask for help, you will get everything done right every time?

Is it critical because other people know better?

Is it critical because you are not the type of person who can decide on your own?

No.

It is critical because when you talk to others, you kick off your critical thinking. And that’s critical.

crit·i·cal think·ing

noun

  1. the objective analysis and evaluation of an issue to form a judgment.

Think well. Think critically. Listen to others. Get others’ opinions. LOTS of them! BUT remember why you are doing it. You are doing it so YOU can form your own opinion, not so you can borrow someone else’s.

xo

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Read other Posts

+

What is “Namaste?”

This morning, I was trying to explain to my 3 year old what “Namaste” means. “The light in me, honours the light in you,” I […]

+

Nobody is coming.

{excerpt} – …she is crazy. Perhaps she needs to get some medication. We need to keep an eye on her. 13 years ago. She closed […]

+

Pocket-size your dream

Don’t dream big. Pocket-size your dream. Make it portable and dense. Like a solid pack of goodness that was born somewhere deep in your heart, […]