You are the one!

Good news, guys!

It doesn’t matter what other people think about you. No, really! Even if you say, you already don’t care, there might be some part of you, I bet, that wants to be liked by your family, your friends, teachers, managers, employees, Instagram followers… haha

Here’s the deal – we (conditioned by our society) think that our reputation and success in life are dependent on how other people see us. So, we must be nice to them, etc. Sure, we have to love each other and be nice, but you know what really matters? The only person who will make the difference for you in your life? Yup, it’s you.

But, wait, there’s more! ๐Ÿ™‚

The reason why YOU are the only person you need to seek approval from is when you completely accept and approve of yourself (a.k.a. self-love), your universe will start magically shifting. It’s freakin’ amazing! Pure miracles will start to happen in your life!

But, wait, there’s even more! :))

So, that desire to “control” things in life!? Do you want to be in control!? Yes, who doesn’t!? ๐Ÿ˜‰ Here’s the answer! Finally! Because you are the only person you can and should control!


So, today, and every day – focus on YOU. Control your thoughts. Put all of your energy on paying attention onย “what YOU are thinking of YOU”. Course-correct IMMEDIATELY when you notice that you are not being honest/loving/respectful to yourself…

It doesn’t matter what your family, your friends, teachers, managers, employees, Instagram followers are thinking/telling you.ย 

As long as you feel GOOD about yourself. As long as you are patient with yourself. As long as you are loving yourself. Once that happens, ALL other areas of your life will turn around! All of them! Your business, your relationships, your career – everything.

You are the center of your Universe. You are the producer and the director of your own life.ย 

Do this for 30 days and report back! I swear, some magic will happen! I dare you! ๐Ÿ™‚

Follow me on my Instagram account to continue this conversation. ๐Ÿ™‚

Lotsa love, Hย 



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